Hello.
In every relationship, it will surely reach a point where everything is about to fall apart; be it friendship or love relationship. But if we are strong enough to cope through, put effort to pass through the obstacles, the relationship will regain its power and form even stronger bonds to create a stronger relationship.
And I think my big group of friends where I call Ohana are going through this stage. We once said: "Once an Ohana, always an Ohana." We said we would make this friendship last forever, but what is happening now? I don't know. Well maybe I know, I just don't have enough courage to face it. I really don't know what should I do. Had I notice it earlier, everything would be different. I will not let this happen.
I once heard this, I forgot where. But I think it is really meaningful.
Relationship is just like carrying a bag. When it's new, you pour plenty of love and care towards it. At the beginning, your shoulders feel almost no weight while you're carrying it. But as you carry, your shoulders start to feel a little bit uncomfortable. And the longer you carry, the more heavy it gets and the more burden you feel. At this stage where you feel like giving up, try putting down your bag and give your shoulders some rest. After awhile, carry it up again and the bag will eventually feel light on your shoulders. I know it sound stupid, I don't know how to put it in words hah.
I'll try my best to prevent this friendship from falling apart. I believe we can do this.
That's all for now, bye.
